Divorces. Breakups

Divorce. Pain caused by breaking up. How can one get over divorce?

Behavioural analysis of the relationship of spouses during divorce shows that more than half of them experience extreme stress and mental pain. Moreover, this pain can last for years, affecting the appearance and health of a person. Currently, the attitude towards divorce is rather frivolous. People simply do not imagine what kind of mental pain they will have to endure. We often receive letters from clients with a request for advice: The ex is jealous after the divorce. The divorce is followed by mental pain. Divorce: what should be done to deal with it? How can I get over divorce? How does a woman get over a divorce? How does a man get over a divorce? Often the initiators of the divorce themselves begin to experience bouts of frenzied jealousy towards their former spouses. Those who were abandoned by their husband or by their wives for many years experience divorce as a betrayal and sincerely hate their exes. Besides, if we take into consideration your children’s possible crippled future, then the situation of divorce requires the most serious psychological support.

Breakups. My girlfriend left me. My boyfriend left me. Mental pain.

Treatment of post-traumatic states.

Treatment of psychological post-traumatic conditions is usually carried out in medical clinics. However, drug treatment shows very low effectiveness, since the causes of mental pain are psychological. It is impossible to cure psychological trauma without first solving psychological problems. Coding (hypnosis) and medication give a short-term result and usually translate this condition into a chronic state. Behavioural psychology treats post-traumatic pain as a behaviour disorder and its methods are aimed precisely at eliminating the behavioural causes of the disorder. Therefore, the effectiveness of behavioural training techniques to eliminate mental pain is about 90%.

Psychological help. Online training.

You can get rid of the mental pain and problematic behaviour associated with divorce and breakups with our psychological centre. The coaching is held online, so all you need is a smartphone or computer and internet access. You do not need to waste time on trips, you just need to connect to the website and take the course from home under the guidance of our specialist, sitting in your favourite chair or lying on your favourite sofa.

Take the love addiction test

1. Do you know that a person experiences pain and stress during a divorce?
2. Have you been divorced for more than a month and are you still experiencing heartache?
3. Do you realize that you cannot tolerate mental pain for a long time?
4. Do you know that to quickly get out of post-traumatic states, you need the help of a specialist?
5. Do you want to get rid of this pain?
6. Are you jealous of your ex-partner?
7. Do you hate your ex-partner?
8. Do you want to rebuild your family?
9. Do you continue to communicate and quarrel with your exes?
10. Do you want to end a toxic relationship and forget about it?
Total number of points: 0

From 1 to 12 points. Your behaviour is approved. You have a good relationship with your exes.

From 13 – 20 points. It is worth seriously thinking about changing your behaviour. If you feel that you can’t apply enough personal efforts to get out of a toxic relationship, you need to use the services of a behaviour change specialist.

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