Shopping is as natural and necessary as sleep. But what if “banal” shopping becomes a goal in itself? In psychology, this type of addiction is officially called shopping addiction. Everyone can become a shopaholic regardless of their financial situation – whether it is a millionaire buying another yacht, or a middle manager spending the last money in a shopping mall. In the article, we will touch upon the topic of women’s addiction to shopping, since it is believed that it is women who are more inclined to make spontaneous purchases.
Shopaholic women are constantly shown in movies and talk shows, and ridiculed in anecdotes. The fact that women are more likely to spend money is also confirmed by studies conducted in the early 2000s in the UK, which showed that 90% of shopaholics identified were women. Nevertheless, there is a clarification: sociologists collected data from respondents over 80% of who were ladies. Unsurprisingly, the survey showed corresponding results. 
Now experts have a completely different view of the situation. In 2006, a team of American scientists led by Lorrin Koran, a psychiatrist expert at Stanford University in California, concluded that 6% of women and 5.5% of men were affected by shopping addiction.  About 2,500 respondents were interviewed, including an equal number from both sexes. Experts have concluded that gender is not the main criterion in identifying potential shopaholics.
It is generally believed that shopping malls, “waiting” for us on every corner, rising popularity of online shopping and the abundance of attractive advertising, encouraging us to buy something, cause a passion for shopping. But psychologists believe that these are only secondary factors. The mere presence of a store nearby cannot turn a sober-minded person into a shopaholic. The problem is much deeper.
To a large extent, women’s passion for shopping is caused by psychological reasons:
1. Loneliness. Shopaholics try to compensate for the lack of attention and love with numerous purchases. They mistakenly think that closets full of things will close the void in the soul.
2. Low self-esteem. For introverted and unconfident people, purchases become a peculiar way to prove their worth to the whole world. When buying something, often popular or branded, person feels more significant.
3. Lack of pleasure. When making a purchase, person experiences happiness. For those who find their own life gray and bleak, shopping becomes almost the only source of joy, and buying is perceived as an event.
4. Depression. This reason is related to the previous one. If the purchase is a source of joy, shopping accordingly boosts spirits. When buying a thing you like adrenaline and endorphins are released into the bloodstream, which leads to feeling an emotional uplift. But over time, this way of drowning out depression can turn into a serious addiction. Each time shopaholic needs to buy more and more to be happy. 
When shopping becomes something vital for a woman, her ability to think intelligently and in a rational manner decreases. At the same time, the stress in the parts of the brain that control emotions and pleasant sensations increases significantly — this is where the euphoria comes from when making a purchase. But after acquiring a mess of unnecessary things, repentance and acute regret ensue. The accumulated stress requires a portion of pleasant emotions again, and woman goes to the sale once more. It is a vicious circle which is extremely difficult to break. This is the main negative consequence of addiction to shopping – an addict ceases to control themselves. For them shopping becomes a lifestyle that replaces leisure and entertainment. 
Passion for shopping strongly hits the wallet. Shopaholics do not think about how to live until the next salary, they are ready to spend the last to buy the desired thing, even if its price is unreasonably high. Often they take loans and, in neglected cases — fall under unmanageable debt load.
Sooner or later, a shopaholic starts having conflicts with loved ones due to irrational spending. He/she begins to lie about the money spent and purchases made, can hide them, and sometimes becomes completely self-isolated. It’s hard to live with a person who has lost control of themselves. Often addicts are left alone with their problem because loved ones have not been able to help them.
One-time or periodic “raids” several times a year to your favorite stores are not a cause for alarm. You should start worrying when shopping becomes a part of the value system, pushing out other important aspects. Obsessive desire to buy something, the constant search for reasons to go to the store, buying completely unnecessary things, inappropriate spending, cabinets in the house clogged with junk – these are serious reasons to think about whether a person suffers from addiction.
What should you do if a woman buys things and all kinds of trinkets all the time? Psychologists give the following recommendations:
First of all, you need to find the “trigger” that demands constant shopping. Try to analyze what motivates a person, what emotions they experience during shopping. Is it boredom, a compensation reaction, an attempt to get out of depression or improve mood, or maybe a way of self-assertion? 
You will have to take a fresh look at the “style” of shopping. An “experienced” shopaholic will have a hard time, but it’s extremely important to change their habits.
The rules of deliberate shopping are simple, but shopaholic will really break them: you can go to the store only with a list, take a small amount of money with you and ignore stocks and sales.
For a shopaholic who got on the road of fixing things it will be extremely difficult to control his/her desires at first. Therefore, help, support and understanding of loved ones are vital. It’s important not to slap shopaholic on the wrists, but to carefully control behavior and budget, to switch their attention from purchases to other things. An addicted person should abandon shopping trips altogether for a period of time. 
Fighting shopaholism will be easier if you find an alternative to it — an activity that will cause positive emotions. It can be anything — hobbies, sports sections or going dancing.
If you can’t cope with the problem yourself, pay attention to special behavior modification courses. Addiction to spontaneous purchases is an unhealthy behavior model that can be adjusted. The 7Spsy Behavior Modification Technique training shows excellent results in this area. This is a patented behavior psychology technique based on the theories of I.P. Pavlov, B.F. Skinner, A.A. Ukhtomsky, and others.
Self-training and systemic work on the course with a psychologist will help you to change pathological pattern of behavior and defeat shopaholism. This is the beginning of a new life without the constant desire to go to the store and waste all the money. Positive mindset, which you will learn at the training, will help you to realize that aimless shopping is one of the worst ways to make yourself feel better and assert yourself in society.
The 7Spsy Behavior Modification Technique training is designed for up to 6 weeks. Classes are held remotely. The psychologist will answer all questions and work with you daily via phone or online chat. Participation in the training is strictly confidential.
Shopaholism is an addiction that does not directly harm human health but is the result of deep psychological problems that need to be addressed immediately. Life without addiction is freedom.
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